It's official...

Mike and I are officially seperated. He was served his papers yesterday and is currently not speaking to me. This is something I just don't understand. I did NOT do this to him. Yes I went to a lawyer and had the papers drawn up...however he did this to HIMSELF...He's the one who had an affair...he's the one who moved out...he's the one living with his girlfriend...and now he's not talking to me...Why is he so mad at me? I mean I really don't care that he's mad and hurt because I served him with seperation papers and now we have to go to court for custody...however did he just expect me to sit around and wait until he's done having his fun and crawl back to me?? I told him that if that's what he wanted then I was gonna take action...I guess he thought I was joking. I hope now he knows that I am serious. I am moving on with my life just like he is and he's gonna have to accept that!!! I am finally at peace with things and I hope for our kids sake that we can be friends...this might take a while but that is my goal. I WILL try my hardest to make sure this happens!! I don't see why two adults who are on relativly good terms can't try to keep things civil. Yes we have to go to mediation for child custody but I am sure he and I can come up with an agreement. I will never keep our children away from him. And I hope that he would not try to take them from me. Just wanted to get that off my chest...there's no one around to talk to right now...Sometimes it's nice to just vent...